Years ago I ran an outplacement center for a manufacturing plant that was closing. Most of the people employed by the company had never worked anywhere else. They needed lots of help with resume writing and interviewing, which I expected. What amazed me, though, was how little these folks knew about themselves. When I asked […]
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Exercise Preference Assessment
The key to regular exercise is doing something you really enjoy. I’d like to share an assessment I have developed to help my clients figure out the best types of activity for them. If you want to actual form, contact me. Otherwise, take a piece a paper and create your own form. Begin by listing […]
Foiled Attempts to Give
Most of us have heard the story about the old man caught in a flood who, waiting for God to save him, died after he turned down three different good Samaritans attempting to help him. I’ve used that tale myself to illustrate the importance of being open minded about how our good shows up when […]
Why Didn’t He Call Again?
Last week I reminded readers how important it is to know their worth. I admit that may be hard to do when he doesn’t call for the second (or third) date. (I’m using “he” here because most of the time it’s women complaining that the men don’t call, even when they said they would.) As […]
More Ways to Eat More Vegetables
How did your vegetable eating go last week? Do you know what the most frequently eaten vegetable in America is? Potatoes. Do you know how they’re most often consumed? You got it – French fries. We can do better than that! In case you need more ideas, here are 13 more ways to enjoy vegetables […]
The Unexpected Good Stuff
Evelyn: Nothing here has worked out quite as I expected. Muriel: Most things don’t. But sometimes what happens instead is the good stuff. This bit of dialogue from the movie The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel is one of my favorite parts of the film. (Leave it to Judi Dench (Evelyn) and Maggie Smith (Muriel) […]
Know Your Worth!
Twice a year, I have the privilege of offering my wellness workshops to a group of women at Perryville State Prison. It’s a pleasure because they’re always so grateful and interested in what I have to offer, including my sane sex message. I can tell by their reactions that the idea they are worth the […]
25 Ways to Eat More Vegetables
Vegetables are an essential component of your diet if you wish to achieve and maintain a healthy weight. They add lots volume and nutrients, with very few calories, a smokin’ deal! And they’re so versatile that you’re sure to find ways to enjoy them if you set your mind to it. Here are the first […]
How Well Do You Receive Praise?
Many years ago I managed a department of about 40 employees. The department had a major backlog when I was hired, and the company was hoping my fresh perspective and human resources experience would help eliminate it. It took the work of everyone in the department along with several others throughout the organization, a new […]
Honor Your Amazing Body
Without any intention on my part, the theme for my week has been about the body. First I read an article about Dr. Joseph Dispenza’s new book, Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, in which he writes about the body-mind connection. He says we need to “teach the body emotionally what we understand intellectually.” Then […]