I’ve heard it said that most of us think the same thoughts over and over again. The problem is that often these are negative thoughts or memories that serve no constructive purpose. If this sounds familiar to you, here’s an exercise to try. Just as your computer has default settings, create for yourself default thoughts […]
Tag: the art and science of receiving
Are you Willing to be Uncomfortable?
I had a powerful ah-ha moment last week. I discovered that successful people aren’t necessarily the ones who work the hardest or are the best in their fields. Yes, those things help, but they’re not enough. Don’t you know hard-working people who are really good at what they do, but are just barely making ends […]
What Does it Mean to be Generous?
Many people desire abundance so that they can be more generous in their giving. I understand this kind of thinking. There are so many wonderful non-profit organizations and candidates for election that I’d love to support financially. Giving money is certainly one way to be generous, but is it the only way or even the […]
Who’s in Control?
“You can’t be surprised, you can’t be tickled if you try to control it.” Dr. Joseph Dispenza It seems to me that there is a debate in the New Thought community about whose will we should be focused on. Does God have a plan for my life (the traditional Christian view) or is it up […]
Skate Slowly and Carefully
This phrase came back to me recently: All skate slowly and carefully. The invitation would come booming over the loud speaker at the roller skating rink, calling us all back onto the floor after a special skate had ended. This was a welcome request then, and I realize it applies now when we’re striving to […]
The Law of Substitution
Is there something you desire to receive? Maybe more than one something? If so, you may find it easier to receive if you know the law of substitution. I first learned about this law from New Thought author Florence Scovel Shinn in the Game of Life and How to Play It, which she self-published in […]
Finding Help
I’m working on my final speech to earn my Advanced Communicator Bronze award at Toastmasters. It’s an after-dinner speech called “Do the Impossible.” One of my tips for accomplishing the impossible is to seek expert advice. This suggestion also applies when we’re striving to receive something, as often acquiring our goal can seem impossible. Thankfully […]
You Can Get There from Here
Learning to receive with grace and ease involves many elements, as I mentioned last week. Another critical skill is being able to keep moving forward when we don’t know the way. If we’re alert, we can see the next step, but typically we can’t see very far down the road, no matter how hard we […]
The Stone Was Moved
To achieve the life we dream of, we need to learn how to receive with grace and ease. This is a process involving numerous skills, and one of those is the ability to keep making progress even when it seems like we’re not capable of doing what we need to do. We may lack the […]
Darkest Just Before the Dawn?
“When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hold on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the time and place that the tide will turn.” Harriet Beecher Stowe, Novelist, 1811 – 1886 Is it really darkest just before […]