Many people desire abundance so that they can be more generous in their giving. I understand this kind of thinking. There are so many wonderful non-profit organizations and candidates for election that I’d love to support financially. Giving money is certainly one way to be generous, but is it the only way or even the best way?
The dictionary offers several definitions of the word “generous.” Two are particularly relevant to the subject of receiving. One definition is “kind,” as in willing to give money, assistance, or time freely. I like the broadness of this description, as sharing our time and skills is often more useful than money, such as providing respite services for a caregiver. I like to expand the definition even further and include giving our attention as an act of generosity. Children and the elderly are especially overlooked when they speak, and the simple act of really listening to them is a wonderfully generous gift.
Being attentive relates to the other dictionary definition of generous that is relevant here, and that is to be “noble,” as in demonstrating forgiveness. Isn’t it generous when someone overlooks a slight, gives us the benefit of the doubt, or pardons our shortcomings? If we’re truly attentive often we’ll recognize that the other person is doing their best. In reality, behaving with kindness and responding with graciousness are two of the most powerful ways to be generous, and they don’t cost a dime.