Have you ever met someone you just couldn’t resist? If you polled people, you’d find that there is a wide variety qualities or characteristics they find so attractive they lose their resolve, discretion, and typical good judgment.
For instance, some are drawn to people in the entertainment world or public eye. Individuals in powerful positions or uniform may attract us. (Did you know “I love a man in uniform” is a song, a book, a film and a video on youtube?) Perhaps you’ve met someone who reminded you of someone you admire, once knew, or miss. Whatever the circumstance, a weakness makes it difficult for us to resist the individual. When faced with such a temptation, we may find ourselves abandoning our commitment to having only sane sex.
We might be inclined to say that when confronted with a weakness, we lose control. In actuality, we are responsible adults, so it’s more accurate to say that we allow ourselves to give up our resolve and act against our better judgment. But, because you are an adult, it’s a choice you get to make. I’d just like to see you be aware of your weaknesses so when the moment of choice comes, you make a decision you can live with later.