I was recently asked if scheduling sex is good or bad for a relationship. Can you guess my answer? I think it’s a great idea, and I have three reasons.
First, something that gets scheduled tends to happen. Sex is worth making it a priority in your life so why not reserve time for it. When you do, you’re less likely to overlook it or put off due to busyness.
Second, we’re much more likely to have safe sex when it’s scheduled because we can be prepared. Spontaneity is not as much fun as the media would have us believe, and there’s nothing enjoyable about an STD!
Finally, and most importantly, we have the anticipation factor. Sex therapists tell us that it’s the thought of having sex that sex addicts are actually addicted to, not the act itself. The anticipation of the experience is very powerful and fun, so we get a lot more out the experience when we can anticipate it.
Why not get with your beloved now, and bring your calendar with you!